Sexual Harassment Hypothesis

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This is complaints of young men on sexual harassment 

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Sexual Harassment Hypothesis

by

Russell R Ellis

So what is sexual harassment? Well it is an attempt by leadership, men or women, to get an employee, woman or man to have sex with them by using there leadership power as a tool to force them to allow them to get them in the mood for sex or intimidate them to have sex with them.This if made illegal by a law, would come as a lesser crime then molestation, a lessor crime of rape, with both being a malicious assault.


Sexual Harassment would not be getting molested or raped in a workplace, as both would be separate crimes, requiring tougher punishment. But the crime if drafted into law would be so fragile, or close to being on the line, at the middle ground, between normal enjoyable teasing, to causing extreme sexual, irritating,  kinda painful, feelings from becoming extremely turned on sexually.

Now before we can make something illegal, we need to define the problem that we want to be protected from, like we don't want the turn on feeling we get from a mans hands on our shoulder. labeled as pain, to understand is not a pressure pain that is bothering us, but the lasting unwanted feelings they cause sexually, so that would leave us with making anything that can cause unwanted, irritating, slightly painful, lasting sexual feelings against the law.

The reward called good feelings given when we see, here, feel, or taste, was given to teach us how to treat each other or give us a reward for getting a wife pregnant by a God or Nature. So we must be very careful not to make something wonderful and enjoyable against the law or a painful feeling like being burned, so we understand we are hurt, illegal.

 Next we have to make sure we don't make any innocent feelings that we should have into something taboo, so mentally ill people with a big mouth and sex everywhere on the brain, who seem to be everywhere. don't label babies and children, just because they feel good when mom or dad gives them a bath, causing mom and pop to neglect them, by hating the feeling they did something wrong over something normal.

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Straights can't and Gays can't

both to be legal or illegal



For anything to be illegal we need to make sure the law we want is constitutional, or legal to make, as we cannot make something illegal that is a sin, within any religion, that's a Gods law, we can't make something illegal that will cause discrimination against anyone, for any reason, we cannot make anything illegal that we can't enforce on everyone equally, we cannot make something illegal that puts another above the law.

Men can't and  women can't  Both to be legal or illegal

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The first thing we have to define what is sexual harassment for men and for women, for gay's and for Straights. But we must obey the laws of our Constitution when we do this.

 Lets begin with Touch as above:

I enjoy being touched or even being close when working with others, and enjoy a hand on my shoulder sending a rewarding feeling for a job well done, and even getting a hug even from a stranger to show how much I am appreciated, for most people these feelings are different then something sexual. Now that could be because, I am a man and feel these feelings different then a woman would. But as a man, I don't want a man or woman grabbing my ass or ball's,
perhaps, I would feel differently if I were Gay or a woman. But you will need an opinion from someone Gay or a woman, to get that answer.

But I don't want a woman turning me on if I don't have one around to take care of that irritating, slightly painful urgent erection that won't go away without masturbation or sexual intercourse. If you are a woman, and don't want to keep snuggling up with me or don't want me to touch you, when your snuggling up to me for whatever your intentions are back off or just plain don't do it, it makes me think your a hooker or gold digger, making a play for my money, don't do it. I don't care if your a woman drunk, out in public, don't cling all over me slobbering, slurring, rubbing you hot body all over me, it's disgusting, why get me all worked up when you know if I had sex with you, I could be accused of rape. When in Korea in 1963 we had hookers who sat in a bar at a table next to us men and would rub our leg, slowly moving up until the got our organ in there hand, knowing we now to week to refuse paying them for some sex. But pretend I am a police officer before you think about doing this to me, today.

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Now lets go to seeing: 

This is a tough one to explain because, we are a species that see's everything differently, especially between men and women. So decide what you want to see others wearing, or show of yourself or what will cause other men and women to feel uncomfortable seeing, because of those lasting unwanted sexual irritating turn on feelings men and women get differently.

Now, don't put your butt on a plate with your legs spread apart with clothing giving a look-a-like of you sex organs advertising what you have to offer if it isn't being offered to me. Put it away for the one you want to have it, or pose in a magazine for other men  want to be teased by it, for whatever reason.






  I remember when so many were against how women dressed in the old days, so maybe they were right and we need to explore what would be appropriate for men and women to ware, based on the unwanted lasting turn on feelings we don't want in the workplace.


I think we have seen these walking down the street, normal today, or even men walking or standing, with a hand holding the look alike penis in there pant's, with there hand. If you wish to hide it from me, thanks, I don't want to see something that disgusting.

Men and women fear research so much by neurologists or psychiatrists that show there weaknesses, and will demand it all be censured (like Bill Clinton did on Child sexual abuse) if possible to avoid embarrassment, yet to be equal we need this research for our children's sake. For example; Children learn from adults within a society, but not if adults don't want to learn, your brain can't arrive at a fact if it has nothing to consider, from imput. In the military, leaders all know, you cannot defeat an enemy, if you don't know, all you can know, about there enemy.

On the other hand a child cannot learn without there urges provided by the brain chemistry or what some call, the call of the wild or nature. The urges cause experimentation by children, they need to learn how to control as they grow up, without interference, by adults, who will cause them to fear or see sex as discussing. God or nature made them ready psychically, at puberty, we fail if we haven't gotten them ready mentally also at puberty. So unless we want to surgically remove the Chemistry in the brain, we cannot make laws to punish someone for the brains indigestion burps or whats normal having control over us. by watching someone getting drunk we can see how chemistry controls our behavior and how little control we have over our behavior and how easily we can lose control and be used or do something we wouldn't normally do.

Our brain can tell you what something is by just seeing a few letters or part of an image. and that is why sometimes we see the wrong word or words and get the wrong meaning. We call these tricks of the brain, brain teasers

Most things in an ink blot, with a V seen by a man seems to be showing or implying a soft pelvic, an upside down V, seems to implies a vagina and legs or camel toe look in a mans brain, far worse if it has been awhile sense he had sex, that's why men say they need to clean the pipes when he needs sex, its the buildup of sexual fluids, like semen, lubrication fluids, filling the ducks connected to the prostate where they empty into, and ejaculated of the penis, that cause these urges, just like the need to pee, and half covered camel-toes magnifies what could be under it, making that area far more interesting then the entire body and of course an instant turn on, as it leaves the brain in confusion, interpreting just how wonderful it will make the body feel during intercourse, and giving the man an annoying irritating pain he cannot get rid of until he can be alone for awhile, until then he is stuck walking around with an erection, he did not want, causing him to consider doing things he would never normally do. 

Our brain interprets messages that could be from a woman sending it to another man or woman, without her knowing she is sending it to everyone interested in whats being offered. Be careful who you are encouraging to have sex with you, no one wants to turned on by someone who don't want them.No man wants to be a victim of a tease.

Behavior is a problem being solved everyday, as we learn more and more about the Chemistry in our brain and find ways to level the balance of chemistry, within our brain, with drugs, being developed constantly, and as we teach the public, that it takes more then behavior modification, to treat mental disorders, and the hormones like insulin developed by organs like the pancreas that control our behavior. But the amount needed changes with age or disease, where there level becomes to much, or not enough, so we lose control, and start acting weird. That's mental illness. Our mistake was getting rid of the mental institutions, that once treated the mentally ill, with problems caused by low or high, levels of hormones, because we were led to believe behavior, was just being spoiled, and used to get out of jail free. a propaganda tool that was used to get rid of our mental hospitals and why we have so many untreated running around causing trouble.  Our understanding of mental illness is changing as we talk about it more today,and seeing so many mentally ill not being treated walking the streets or on the job, causing problems with other people in society or on the job, so we will be getting back hospitals to treat these people and to learn more about our sexual side of health as research improves..

Now it is your turn to write about what sexual harassment laws you want and why.